Chicks are raised being more emotional and dependent on other people. It's hard for chicks to be friends with anyone. A chick's friendship with a dude is ALWAYS sketchy territory. Can some girls and guys just be friends for their entire lives, with no romantic feelings? Sure! Does it happen often? NO! At some point or another, one of them is going to like the other one. Being friends with other chicks, though, is even harder. Because they get mad and don't tell you, or talk about you to someone else, or steal your boyfriend, or eat McDonald's every single night without EVER GAINING ANY KIND OF WEIGHT. We have to wear makeup to look like people who do not even EXIST. We have to wake up earlier to shower and then do our hair...usually. Women have to* push a HUMAN out of their BODIES.
On the other hand, dudes have a lot of difficult developmental tasks too. They have to keep very close track of their thoughts. And they have to deal with emotions without society actually LETTING them deal with emotions. And proposing?! That would scare the life out of me. Not to mention, all those girl problems, they have to deal with the side effects. Women's The Crazy has the power to threaten their very lives at one wrong word choice error. (Note: stay away from "crazy", "too emotional", "irrational", and "FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, WOMAN!"). Men have a more embarrassing puberty development. Boys get less support from people, usually. Boys have a bad rep, be it true or not (it is). Men even die sooner.
What it comes down to, I think, is that women have to shave their legs.
In conclusion, being a boy is easier.
amen.
mara
mara
*GET TO
4 comments:
Mara! I just found your blog and that made my day!! See you in you Helping Rel tomo! Love ya, twin!
Emily
Yes, it is fantastic being a guy, hands down, the best.
Question: if so many women hate the makeup, the "fakeness," and the pretending to be someone their not...how does it keep happening? If all those women on tv, and "in the media" really aren't who ya'll want to be, why keep following? If it's to please us (guys) then that surprises me, because I could care less whether or not you look like the cover of a magazine...just prove to me there's something upstairs! :)
tata.
platonic relationships are nearly impossible. i thought i had one freshman year; months later, i didn't.
i would agree with sam. makeup might be the work of satan, as least in the media. unrealistic and frankly unattractive expectations
there are other cons for guys. social norms and common decency prevent me from posting them here.
crate and barrel have matching wine glasses for your wine
i honestly think it is easier being girl, i have always thought guys have it harder.
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